
In the wake of the sex revolution of the '60s and
'70s, several sexual positions have been
appropriated by the pop culture and turned into
attitudes toward sex. For instance, the Missionary
position has since been known as a symbol of
things boring and conventional, while the Woman on
Top position was used to show both the power of
newly liberated women and the liberal attitude of
the men who enjoyed this position.
Anal
sex and the Doggy Style position are still seen in
certain places as substitutes for a
domination/submission relation or experience,
which is meant to humiliate a person or to teach
that person a lesson. The Sixty-nine position, on
the other hand, is a symbol of shared pleasure and
adventure. At the beginning of the '60s, much of
the Western world, and especially the Anglo-Saxon
countries, was still trapped in the old fashioned
style of sex, aptly described by George Carlin as
"man on top, get it over with quick".
The
free and frank discussion of sex was not universal
even in France, which was the leading libertarian
country of that time. The codes of laws of most,
if not all, American states still had laws
prohibiting almost every kind of sex that did not
belong to the established pattern, including oral
and anal sex within heterosexual couples.
The classic 69 position has the two
individuals lie down, one on top of the other. One
of the two partners, let's assume it's the man,
lies on its back while the woman gets on top with
her head toward the man's penis. The woman will
eventually assume an "all fours" position, with
her knees on either side of the man's head.
Thus, each of the two partners has an
excellent view of the other's genitals and enough
space to give delightful pleasure. Moreover, the
position allows each partner to use his hands for
added fun. The man can insert one or two fingers
in the woman's vagina or anus, while the woman can
add stroking to the oral stimulation and also
insert a finger in the man's anus.
This is
why the 69 position first represented a man and a
woman that did not mind trying new things and who
were also at ease with servicing one another
orally. At the time when the 69 position started
making its way into pop culture, many men thought
that going down on their ladies was demeaning or
disgusting. Many men still think that way even
today, which is why the 69 position can be seen as
the mark of the open minded people who have
overcome the old ideas about sex.