
Bringing a man to orgasm is a
relatively simple thing. A nice joke claimed once
that all a woman has to do to please a man is to
show up naked and bring beer. Although this is a
simplification of the male sexuality, it serves to
show that it doesn't take much for a man to reach
sexual pleasure. Pleasing a woman, however, is
quite something else, as any man can confirm. Men
tend to rely on a fast and none too subtle
approach.
Women like to see things
unfolding a bit differently. So I think the men
need a little helping hand to get the entire thing
right, which is why I picked a couple of sex
positions that are fun, fun, fun for the ladies.
The first position we are going to discuss is the
good old missionary style. I know that the first
thing that comes to mind when the words
"missionary position" are encountered is
"BORING!".
However, this parochial
technique is delightfully suited for her orgasm
because the man's pubic mound is rubbing against
the woman's clitoris. This will help the woman
reach orgasm quicker, especially if the savvy man
puts a pillow under the lady's shapely bottom and
aims for the G-spot. Even though missionary
doesn't sound like a lot of fun, it can be the
very thing for those smart enough to make the most
of it.
Another good position for the woman
is doggy style. This position is extremely
arousing for men because they have the sight of a
sexy ass to feast their eyes upon and they can
also control the movement very well. Plus, they
can reach around and play with the woman's
clitoris, which is as close as it gets to a
surefire way to get the lady over the edge.
The direct stimulation of the clitoris and
the deep penetration afforded by the doggy style
position are excellent for fast and intense
orgasms, especially if you're into quickies. Just
make sure you keep a finger on her clitoris. And
this article would not be complete with the
undisputed leader of positions designed to enhance
the woman's pleasure: her on top.
This is
a major turn on for both men and women, although
for different reasons. Men like the position
because they can lay back and watch the show,
while the woman is doing all the work. Moreover,
men get to have a great view of their ladies and
to play with their breasts if they feel like
moving their hands. The ladies like the position
because it gives them full control.
They
can set the pace of sex and make sure their
clitoris is rubbing hard against the man's pubic
area each time she sinks down. It's heaven for
both man and woman. And a nice variation of the
"her on top" position can be tried in a chair. Get
a chair without arms and which is sturdy enough to
support your combined weight and the subsequent
rocking. Sit on the chair and let the lady
straddle you.
The curve of your stomach
and torso will make it impossible for her clitoris
not to rub on your pubic area. And if that rubbing
is not intense enough, don't be shy, give the lady
a hand. If you can support her with just one hand,
use the other to play with her clitoris and make
her orgasm like crazy. For even more fun, turn her
around and try to find the G-spot with your penis.
This should be a lot of fun.
It's not that
hard to give your lady orgasms. The trick is to
get her hot with sexy foreplay and then to have
sex in a position that would stimulate both her
clitoris and vagina. If she's not enjoying herself
enough, then step in and take control of the
situation. Use your fingers or your penis to
target the clitoris directly and make her squeal
with pleasure. And you'll see that she's going to
love you for this.