Everybody wants positions, everybody likes positions. They are the special thing that can make or break a relationship because they reflect the degree of imagination, sense of adventure in each of us, or the lack thereof. Positions are important to lovers who want to achieve the Tantric feeling of oneness and shared feelings and also for powerful, mind-blowing orgasms.

Remember that Tantric lovers synchronize their breathing and gaze into each other's eyes during sex in order to share their feelings. The first position we are going to discuss features the guy lying on his back with the lady on top. The lady should lower herself on his penis and hook her feet over the inside of his legs while keeping her knees on the bed on each side of the guy's thighs.

This way the two lovers are face to face the whole time. The lady should also get a grip on the bed sheets on either side of the guy's shoulders (or wherever she finds it comfortable for her) and start moving her pelvis up and down in short motions. The position is designed to keep the two lovers locked in order to focus on finesse and feeling rather than a lot of moving around.

Another good thing about it is the lady's angle, which lets the clitoris rub against the guy's pubic bone. The second position is also designed with less movement and more feeling in mind. The lady lies on her stomach with the legs slightly spread. The man gets on top of her, planting his knees on each side of her thighs and supporting himself on his elbows.

Immediately after penetration, the lady closes her legs and crosses her ankles in order to trap the penis inside a tight place. This makes sex easier for both partners, because it lets the man control his own momentum and avoid premature ejaculation, while being able to kiss the lady's neck and ears and play with her breasts. The lady also gets to enjoy the entire length and girth of the penis as it moves in and out.

The same tight fit and maximum sensation can be achieved with another position. The lady lies on her back, preferably with a pillow under her head, with her legs in the air, while the man kneels in front of her and places his hands on either side of her torso, roughly at breast level in order to steady himself. Then the guy should place both the lady's feet on one of his shoulders and penetrate her.

Keeping the legs close together creates the tight fit all lovers like; although couples may want to try changing the pace and feeling by having the lady spread her feet slightly every now and then. This position also leaves the lady's hands free to play with her clitoris, caress her man or both. There's a lot of fun to be had with this position.

The perfect position for those who like to give in to the sudden, overwhelming urge and go for a quickie is, of course, a "from behind" position. The lady bends forward and spreads her legs. She can place her arms on a chair for better support or use one hand to play with the love button. The man stands up straight and enters her from behind, with his hands locked around her waist.

The position hands over full control to the man and it's a good opportunity for him to show how well he can use depth and speed control to make his lady orgasm like crazy. A sweet twist for playful lovers is to have the man stay still, while the lady takes control and grinds her pelvis and bottom against him. Playful lovers that like to do it even in the bathroom can really put this next position to good use.

The man sits down in the half-filled tub with his back propped against the tub while the lady straddles him, kneels down and settles comfortably in his lap, guiding the penis into her vagina. She is in now control of the entire thing and her grinding is certain to bring both lovers to orgasm very soon. The man can lie back and play with her breasts or stroke her clitoris, while the lady can get busy with the shower and use a stream of warm water to increase their pleasure.